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Letter 18On Festivals and Fasting

While Rome parties through its December Saturnalia, Seneca asks how to keep the holiday without being swept away. Join in without excess, he says, and now and then live a few days on hard bread in a rough cloak, until the poverty you feared stops frightening you.

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  1. 1Rome at the Saturnalia: the whole city feasting in liberty caps.
  2. 2A few set days, by choice: a real pallet and a rough cloak.
  3. 3Hard bread and water. Soon a pennyworth of food tastes like a feast.
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Letter 18 of 124

The letter, part by part

Nine parts, following the website’s sections. Each has a short explanation and its key line. Open “Read this part in full” for the complete text. Tap a dotted word for its meaning.

  1. Part 1

    How to handle the holidays

    It is December, and Rome is deep in the ; the partying has spread so far that the holiday hardly differs from any other day. Seneca wonders what Lucilius would advise: keep the usual routine, or dine more lavishly and swap the for party clothes, so as not to seem aloof? He guesses Lucilius would say: don’t copy the crowd in everything, but don’t be wholly unlike them either. Or perhaps this is the very moment to test yourself, by holding back while everyone else lets go.

    Once December was a month; now it is a year.

    olim mensem Decembrem fuisse, nunc annum.

    When December lasts all year

    once now one month in twelve every month a feast
    The festival used to be one month in twelve. Now the feasting never stops, so it no longer feels like a feast.
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    It is the month of December, and yet the city is at this very moment in a sweat. Licence is given to the general merrymaking. Everything resounds with mighty preparations,—as if the differed at all from the usual business day! So true it is that the difference is nil, that I regard as correct the remark of the man who said: “Once December was a month; now it is a year.”

    If I had you with me, I should be glad to consult you and find out what you think should be done,—whether we ought to make no change in our daily routine, or whether, in order not to be out of sympathy with the ways of the public, we should dine in gayer fashion and . As it is now, we Romans have changed our dress for the sake of pleasure and holiday-making, though in former times that was only customary when the State was disturbed and had fallen on evil days. I am sure that, if I know you aright, playing the part of an umpire you would have wished that we should be neither like the throng in all ways, nor in all ways unlike them; unless, perhaps, this is just the season when we ought to lay down the law to the soul, and bid it be alone in refraining from pleasures just when the whole mob has let itself go in pleasures; for this is the surest proof which a man can get of his own , if he neither seeks the things which are seductive and allure him to luxury, nor is led into them.

  2. Part 2

    The harder discipline: fit in without giving in

    Staying sober while the mob is drunk takes courage. But Seneca thinks it takes more self-control to stay at the party and do what everyone does, only in your own way, so you neither stand out nor melt into the crowd. A holiday can be kept without excess.

    For one may keep holiday without extravagance.

    licet enim sine luxuria agere festum diem.

    Join the feast, not the excess

    the crowd same feast, own measure
    Celebrate with everyone, but keep your own measure: no grand refusal, and no getting swept away.
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    It shows much more courage to remain dry and sober when the mob is drunk and vomiting; but it shows greater self-control to refuse to withdraw oneself and to do what the crowd does, but in a different way,—thus neither making oneself conspicuous nor becoming one of the crowd. For one may keep holiday without extravagance.

  3. Part 3

    The practice: rehearse what you fear

    Now Seneca sets Lucilius an exercise, taken from great teachers: set aside some days to live on the plainest, cheapest food in rough clothes, and ask yourself whether this is what you were afraid of. Easy times are when the mind should toughen up, the way soldiers drill and dig with no enemy in sight. Some people did this every month, so that real want would never frighten them.

    Is this the condition that I feared?

    hoc est quod timebatur?

    Train before the crisis comes

    no enemy in sight drill in peacetime
    Soldiers dig walls and drill with no enemy near, so the real fight finds them ready.
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    I am so firmly determined, however, to test the constancy of your mind that, drawing from the teachings of great men, I shall give you also a lesson: Set aside a certain number of days, during which you shall be content with the scantiest and cheapest fare, with coarse and rough dress, saying to yourself the while: “Is this the condition that I feared?”

    It is precisely in times of immunity from care that the soul should toughen itself beforehand for occasions of greater stress, and it is while is kind that it should fortify itself against her violence. In days of peace the soldier performs manœuvres, throws up with no enemy in sight, and wearies himself by toil, in order that he may be equal to unavoidable toil. If you would not have a man flinch when the crisis comes, train him before it comes. Such is the course which have followed who, in their imitation of poverty, have every month come almost to want, that they might never recoil from what they had so often rehearsed.

  4. Part 4

    Make it real, not dress-up

    He doesn’t mean the games rich people play when bored with luxury, like dinners or mock . Make it real: a hard bed, a coarse cloak, stale bread, for three or four days or more. Then a of food will make you jump for joy, and you’ll see that peace of mind doesn’t depend on .

    Endure all this for three or four days at a time, sometimes for more, so that it may be a test of yourself instead of a mere hobby.

    ut non lusus sit sed experimentum
    Pallet
    a real one
    Cloak
    coarse and rough
    Bread
    hard and grimy
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    You need not suppose that I mean meals like , or “,” or any other device which luxurious millionaires use to beguile the tedium of their lives. Let the be a real one, and the coarse cloak; let the bread be hard and grimy. Endure all this for three or four days at a time, sometimes for more, so that it may be a test of yourself instead of a mere hobby. Then, I assure you, my dear Lucilius, you will leap for joy when filled with a of food, and you will understand that a man’s peace of mind does not depend upon ; for, even when angry she grants enough for our needs.

  5. Part 5

    Only what millions do every day

    Don’t think this is heroic: thousands of slaves and poor people live like this every day. Your only credit is that you choose it, and that you could bear it for good as easily as for a trial run. Practise on the , get to know poverty, and you’ll be rich with far less worry.

    We shall be rich with all the more comfort, if we once learn how far poverty is from being a burden.

    securius divites erimus si scierimus quam non sit grave pauperes esse.

    What thousands live every day

    many thousands, every day you, by choice
    Living on little is nothing special: many people do it every day. Your one credit is that nobody forces you.
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    There is no reason, however, why you should think that you are doing anything great; for you will merely be doing what many thousands of slaves and many thousands of poor men are doing every day. But you may credit yourself with this item,—that you will not be doing it under compulsion, and that it will be as easy for you to endure it permanently as to make the experiment from time to time. Let us practise our strokes on the “”; let us become intimate with poverty, so that Fortune may not catch us off our guard. We shall be rich with all the more comfort, if we once learn how far poverty is from being a burden.

  6. Part 6

    Even Epicurus fasted

    Even , the philosopher of pleasure, kept set days of meagre eating, to measure how much happiness he really lost. He boasted that he fed himself on less than a , while his pupil still needed a whole one. Plain fare like this, Seneca says, brings a pleasure that is steady and sure, and leaves you needing only what luck can’t snatch away.

    Not that shifty and fleeting pleasure which needs a fillip now and then, but a pleasure that is steadfast and sure.

    voluptas autem non illa levis et fugax et subinde reficienda, sed stabilis et certa.

    Full on less than a penny

    Epicurus less than a penny Metrodorus a whole penny
    The teacher of pleasure ate on less than a penny a day, and found the pleasure steady and sure.
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    Even , the teacher of pleasure, used to observe stated intervals, during which he satisfied his hunger in fashion; he wished to see whether he thereby fell short of full and complete happiness, and, if so, by what amount he fell short, and whether this amount was worth purchasing at the price of great effort. At any rate, he makes such a statement in the well known letter written to in the . Indeed, he boasts that he himself lived on less than a , but that , whose progress was not yet so great, needed a whole penny.

    Do you think that there can be fulness on such fare? Yes, and there is pleasure also,—not that shifty and fleeting pleasure which needs a now and then, but a pleasure that is steadfast and sure. For though water, , and crusts of barley-bread, are not a cheerful diet, yet it is the highest kind of pleasure to be able to derive pleasure from this sort of food, and to have reduced one’s needs to that which no unfairness of Fortune can snatch away.

  7. Part 7

    Getting ahead of Fortune’s blows

    Prisoners, even the condemned, are fed better than this, so choosing it freely takes a great soul, and it beats Fortune to the punch. So Seneca urges Lucilius to set aside days to step back from business and get on easy terms with poverty. He backs this with two lines of : dare to look down on wealth.

    This is indeed forestalling the spear-thrusts of Fortune.

    hoc est praeoccupare tela fortunae.

    Step down first, and Fortune misses

    Fortune’s spears came down by choice
    Choose the plain life for a few days and Fortune’s worst blow lands on a spot you have already left.
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    Even prison fare is more generous; and those who have been set apart for capital punishment are not so meanly fed by the man who is to execute them. Therefore, what a noble soul must one have, to descend of one’s own free will to a diet which even those who have been sentenced to death have not to fear! This is indeed forestalling the spear-thrusts of Fortune.

    So begin, my dear Lucilius, to follow the custom of these men, and set apart certain days on which you shall withdraw from your business and make yourself at home with the scantiest fare. Establish business relations with poverty.

    Dare, O my friend, to scorn the sight of wealth,
    And mould thyself to kinship with thy God.

  8. Part 8

    Own wealth without fearing to lose it

    Only someone who has looked down on wealth is fit to be close to God. Seneca doesn’t forbid owning riches; he wants Lucilius to own them without fear. The way there is to be sure you could live happily without them, and to treat them as always about to leave.

    Of course I do not forbid you to possess it, but I would have you reach the point at which you possess it dauntlessly.

    efficere volo ut illas intrepide possideas.

    Hold riches with an open hand

    held without fear may slip away
    Keep your wealth if you have it, but hold it loosely, ready for the day it leaves.
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    For he alone is in kinship with God who has scorned wealth. Of course I do not forbid you to possess it, but I would have you reach the point at which you possess it ; this can be accomplished only by persuading yourself that you can live happily without it as well as with it, and by regarding riches always as likely to elude you.

  9. Part 9

    A last word on anger

    Time to fold up the letter, and Lucilius expects his usual parting gift, so Seneca pays with a : anger without limits leads to madness. Anger flares at anyone, out of love as readily as hate, over games as over serious things. As with fire, what matters is less the size of the spark than what it lands on: a big flame can fail to catch on solid wood, while dry stuff lets a tiny spark grow into a .

    Ungoverned anger begets madness.

    immodica ira gignit insaniam.

    Same spark, different fuel

    same spark solid timber dry tinder: a blaze
    Anger works like fire. The provocation matters less than the mind it lands in: a dry one goes up in flames, a solid one doesn’t catch.
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    But now I must begin to fold up my letter. “Settle your debts first,” you cry. Here is a ; he will pay down the sum: “ anger begets madness.” You cannot help knowing the truth of these words, since you have had not only slaves, but also enemies.

    But indeed this emotion blazes out against all sorts of persons; it springs from love as much as from hate, and shows itself not less in serious matters than in jest and sport. And it makes no difference how important the provocation may be, but into what kind of soul it penetrates. Similarly with fire; it does not matter how great is the flame, but what it falls upon. For solid timbers have repelled a very great fire; conversely, dry and easily inflammable stuff nourishes the slightest spark into a . So it is with anger, my dear Lucilius; the outcome of a mighty anger is madness, and hence anger should be avoided, not merely that we may escape excess, but that we may have a healthy mind. Farewell.

The modern take

The website breaks Letter 18 into 12 lessons for today. I’ve grouped them into four themes; each lesson is summarised in plain words.

Holidays without excess

Lessons 1–2
  1. 1

    When the holiday takes over the year

    If every day is a party, no day feels like one. Endless treats wipe out the treat.

  2. 2

    Fit in without giving in

    Take part in the celebration, but in your own way: no showy refusal, no getting carried off.

Rehearse hardship on purpose

Lessons 3–7
  1. 3

    Rehearse what you fear

    Live for a few days the way you dread, then ask if that was really the thing. It usually shrinks.

  2. 4

    Get ready in peacetime

    Build toughness while life is easy. Nobody can start training once the trouble has arrived.

  3. 5

    Make it real, not dress-up

    Pretend hardship you can quit at the first pang teaches nothing. The discomfort has to be genuine.

  4. 6

    A crust will make you leap for joy

    A few lean days reset your appetite, so plain food becomes a real pleasure again.

  5. 7

    Millions live this every day

    No bragging: what you try for a few days is many people’s whole life. Let it keep you humble.

What can’t be taken

Lessons 8–11
  1. 8

    Steady pleasure, not shifty pleasure

    Luxury needs ever-new thrills to keep pleasing. The pleasure of needing little stays put.

  2. 9

    Cut your needs to what can’t be taken

    Every need you drop is one less handle bad luck can grab you by.

  3. 10

    Own wealth without fearing its loss

    Riches aren’t banned. Hold them loosely, as things that may leave, and they stop causing dread.

  4. 11

    Practised poverty makes wealth sweeter

    Once you know you’d cope with little, having plenty stops feeling fragile, and you can enjoy it.

A word on anger

Lesson 12
  1. 12

    Unchecked anger breeds madness

    How much harm anger does depends less on the insult than on the mind it lands in. Aim to be hard to set alight.

Read the website’s own translation and full breakdown

Letter 18 on one card

Keep the feast; rehearse the fast

  • Holidays without excessJoin in, your own way: neither reveller nor killjoy.
  • Rehearse hardship on purposeA few real days of plain food and rough clothes, while life is easy.
  • What can’t be takenNeed little, enjoy steady pleasures, and own wealth without fear.
  • A word on angerThe damage depends on the soul it lands in. Be solid timber.

The line the website ends on“Set aside a certain number of days, during which you shall be content with the scantiest and cheapest fare, with coarse and rough dress, saying to yourself the while: ‘Is this the condition that I feared?’”

Words

Harder words and names from the letter, in the order they appear.

Saturnalia
Rome’s December festival of the god Saturn, starting on 17 December. Feasting, gifts and gambling, with the usual social rules relaxed.
toga, doff the toga
The toga was the heavy wool robe of a Roman citizen. For the Saturnalia, people took it off and wore a light dinner garment instead.
liberty-capped
Wearing the pilleus, a felt cap that marked a freed slave. At the Saturnalia the whole crowd put it on.
constancy
Steadiness of mind; the firmness a Stoic keeps under pressure.
earthworks
Banks of earth and ditches dug to fortify a camp. Roman soldiers built them even on peaceful marches.
Fortune
Fortuna, the Roman goddess of luck. For Stoics, the name for everything outside our control.
gratuitous
Unnecessary; done without any need.
those men
Gummere’s note says Seneca means the Epicureans, who practised living on very little.
Timon’s
Timon of Athens, a legendary hater of mankind who lost his fortune. ‘Timon dinners’ were mock-poor meals the rich played at.
paupers’ huts
Fake ‘poor men’s rooms’ that some rich Romans built inside their mansions, to play at poverty for a day.
pallet
A hard, narrow bed or straw mattress. Seneca’s word, grabattus, is a cheap camp bed.
pennyworth
Seneca names the dupondius, a small brass coin worth two asses. Food that costs next to nothing.
dummy
The palus, a wooden post that recruits and gladiators practised their sword strokes on.
Epicurus
Greek philosopher (341–270 BC) who taught that pleasure, meaning calm and freedom from pain, is life’s goal. Seneca often quotes him.
niggardly
Stingy; meagre.
Polyaenus
A close friend and leading pupil of Epicurus, and a mathematician.
archonship of Charinus
Athens named each year after its chief magistrate, the archon. Charinus held the post around 290 BC.
penny
The as, a small copper coin: Rome’s basic unit of small change.
Metrodorus
Epicurus’s closest friend and pupil, who died some years before him.
fillip
A little boost or stimulus; literally, a flick of the finger.
barley-meal
Coarsely ground barley. Romans saw barley as poor food, and soldiers were put on barley rations as a punishment.
modicum
A small, bare amount.
Vergil
Rome’s great poet (70–19 BC). The lines come from his Aeneid, where King Evander welcomes Aeneas to his humble home.
dauntlessly
Without fear.
draft on Epicurus
A draft is a written order to pay. Seneca ends these early letters by ‘paying’ Lucilius a good saying, often from Epicurus.
ungoverned
Out of control; beyond measure (Latin immodica).
conflagration
A huge, destructive fire.
A few fun factsOptional, six short ones
  • The Saturnalia officially began on 17 December, but by Seneca’s day the partying ran on for several days.
  • During the festival, dice gambling was allowed in public, and masters sometimes waited on their slaves at dinner.
  • The freedman’s cap became a badge of liberty: after Caesar’s murder, Brutus put one on his coins, between two daggers.
  • The paupers’ huts were real. Martial jokes about Olus, who built a ‘poor man’s room’ in his mansion, then lost his estates and had to live in it.
  • Seneca was no poor man himself: an enemy, Suillius, accused him of piling up 300 million sesterces in four years at Nero’s side.
  • “Anger is a brief madness” is Horace’s line. Seneca had already written a whole three-book treatise, On Anger.